How to Care for Your Sick Child?

आप अपने बीमार बच्चे की देखभाल कैसे करें? [Click here to read in Hindi]

In the daily routine lifestyle due to changes in the weather, activities, schedule our children face problems. These can be cause of illness for them. Every child has own immunity system and it depends that how strongly it is working. Some common problems kids face due to their routine lifestyle changes are fever, cold & cough, constipation, abdominal pain, headaches, body-ache. etc.

When they are sick then how to handle situation and take care you sick children in the situation? These advices may make your kids comfortable for their quick recovery and they will get well soon.

First Aid box

You should have first aid box at your home to handle the situations at first level. A first aid box is a collection of supplies and equipments that are used to give medical treatment prior to reaching to the doctor. In the market first aid kit supplies are available which you can purchase. You can also consult with your family doctor that what necessary items/medicines you can keep in your first aid box.

Doctor consultation 

Consult with the pediatrician immediately if you see unusual symptoms. Provide complete details to the doctor. Do not hide anything because doctors treat the patient based on the symptoms shows according to the time. If you are out of city / country then you can also search online doctors for consultation. Many free online doctor chats are also available now a days to discuss many kind of diseases. Now a days to discuss on many kind of diseases free online doctor chats are also available. If you feel that there is requirement for hospitalization and If you are already covered with family insurance then report to the Insurance company on time regarding it. To cover this, it is recommended to purchase Family health medical insurance plan.

Comfortable atmosphere 

Patients need different types of atmosphere so that they can feel better. Comfortable atmosphere includes noiseless, temperature control, comfortable bedding etc. While kids will be sleeping then they should not be disturbed. Room temperature should be according to the patient's situation. A patient doesn't like noise so your mobiles should be on vibration mode, speak with a low pitch.

Follow medical schedule

You should follow medical treatment schedule prescribed by doctor. give each dose to your kid on time. Don't skip any practice / medicine without discussion with pediatrician.

Talk with love & care

Talk with your kids regularly with love and care. They will not feel alone. Discuss things about their interest. They can forget their illness for some time. It will give them some comfortless.

Healthy food

Cook healthy food for them. If their is any kind of food list or schedule prescribed by doctor / dietician  then follow it. Otherwise cook light food it will be easily digestive for the patient. You can cook some delicious food for your kid which they like; first ask pediatrician. Avoid to serve junk food including fried and containing sauces.

Don't pressurize 

Ask them for not going to the school/classes. Don't pressurize them for study when they are sick. Any kind of pressure will be hurdle on their quick recovery.

Avoidance with gadgets

You child should avoid using gadgets like smart phones / Television. Restrict them to play online games, watching videos, watching tv cartoons etc. in the sick condition. Sickness impact all body parts. They may report headache and eyes tiredness. [Also read "Is Your Child Smart Phone Addicted???"]

Feel comfortable

You should feel comfortable in front of your kids. If they will see you in tense they will also feel same. You are role model for your kids. They will follow you. Say them some magical words like "You will get well soon!", "Brave kid!" etc.

All the best!

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How to Become Perfect Parents???

आप अच्छे माता पिता कैसे बनें??? [Click here to read in Hindi]

All couples wish to have kids. The home is complete from the children. Children's voices fill the happiness in the hearts of all the members of the house irrespective of it is a boy or a girl. You feel lucky that a child has come into your house in the form of a bundle of happiness. 

Just having a child is not enough; parents' responsibility starts here. Children are like an empty paper and you can write anything on it without any mess-up. They are like a raw pot; you can bend and give any shape easily. You feel relex if you are having a a healthy and intelligent kid. Parents work like a teacher and children spend much time with their parents. Children start learning things only from their parents. But sometimes all these things does not go well on track due to insufficient guidelines.

The question arises here: are you guiding your children in such a way that they should on the right track, respect everyone and move towards their career successfully? do you have all the qualities that make you a good parent?

Here are some good parenting tips. These can develop effective parenting skilling inside you to nurture your kids. You can read and share it with other parents.

1. Give true love, not all demanded things

People mistakenly believe that to love their children means fulfilling their every demand. If you give them everything they ask for then you are very stupid. If you love your child, then give only those things which are necessary. When you truly love someone, without worrying about his kindness, you do what is right for him. You think that you are having only a single child, purchasing costly things like toys on their demand. Sometime purchasing costly gifts for your kid also treated as status symbol for you as you are not having any shortfall of money. You feel that your kid must have everything. But It is not good for him. Their small demands will gradually grow bigger and the child will become stubborn to persuade his stubbornness.

2. Create a friendly and positive environment

You should create a loving happy atmosphere. Do not keep office or business parishes in front of children. If you look scared and worried then how your children will be happy? They will learn the same thing and their attitude will be develop accordingly. Do not quarrel and debate with your spouse in front of your children. Children's have little wit, it can have adverse effects on their mind [Also read "Are you in happy married life"]. Always be happy in front of your kids so that they feel comfortable. If your kids feel friendly with you then they will share each and every thing with you.

3. Siblings  

If you are having more than one kid then you should behave equally. Otherwise most of the brothers and sisters experience jealousy or competition in some way. It can flare up in disputes and quarrels.  All your fingers are not equal, so do not compare both in the study or in the spirit of a competitor. 

4. Give quality time

Give your children quality time. help them in their study, play with them, motivate them for doing some creative work. By that way their mind will be creative and they will not be destructive. [Read the article "Do you Know How Your Child be a Good Learner???"]

5. Use of smart phone & gadgets

There is a lot of energy inside the children. They can not sit regularly on one place and want to do something creative. For doing it, support them. Today's parents give smart phones and other gadgets to their children so that they can engage in it so that they will not disturb them. This is a completely wrong approach. They become addicts to these gadgets [Read the article "Is your child smart phone addicted???"]. If you have not much time to spend with them, then they should include some sports, arts or dance classes according to their interest. This will enhance their talent. For extra curriculum activities your kids can also learn singing, music, dance, art online.

6. Develop Habit of self-study 

You should encourage your children to self-study. While while studying answers to their questions, if you are unable to answer, check out some online sites or check with their teachers. For students there are online assignments are available for maths, science (EVS), SST etc. for doing more practice. It will increase their confidence, help them in development of self-study habit. This habit will helpful to them while they will do higher study. Create an environment where external intervention is less and the child gets an opportunity to increase his intellectual capacity. 

7. Keep patience 

If children will not do any mistake then who will do it, You & me? So keep patience, if they will do any mistake then ask reason for doing it, listen carefully and explain the correct way for doing things. If you honestly want to raise your children well, then first you have to make yourself a quiet and loving person.

8. Praise your child

You should praise your child's work. When they will do any good work then don't forget to praise them by saying some magical words like "Nice!", "I proud on you!", "Keep it up!" etc. It will boost-up their moral and they will do extra efforts for doing their future tasks. In some days you will feel the change in them.

9. Regular health check-up

Being a good parent you must be alert about your kids health. You must do baby pediatrician visits to follow vaccination chart. Do medical check if you see any kind of changes in their regular activities. For example if your child used to write its school work on time in the school but now he is not able to do it. It may be possible that his eye sight need to be tested.  You may also buy health Insurance policy for your kids [Read the article "Do you Know How Your Child be a Good Learner???"]. It may cover their regular dental check-up. 

10. Update yourself regularly

Due to rapid change of technology, many changes come to the way of study. You have to keep yourself updated otherwise your children will not feel comfortable with you. You should be aware of online study courses, online test series, eBooks available on the Internet etc. You can subscribe to these courses for reference or practices of your children. Generation gap is a major obstacle in making you a perfect parent.

11. Respect expectations

Everyone in the world need respect. For getting respect you first need to respect others. In the same way respect your kids. Never use abusing language with them. Don't pressurize them to respect you or others. They will learn it from you. You must be a role model for them.

12. Career decision

They should become what they want to be. Try to mold them according to their own understanding of life. It is not necessary that whatever you did your child will also follow the same and do same profession or job. You should courage your child to think about their career according to their interest.

Children are future of your family and for your country so let them nurture with love and care.


All the Best!

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Do You Love and Care Your Parents???

क्या आप अपने माता-पिता को प्यार और उनकी देखभाल करते हैं???

Time never stops and It went so fast. A new member borns in the family, he/she grows and crosses different stages child -> adolescent -> young -> old and then went to the ultimate stage of the life.

When a new member borns everyone get happy, distribute sweets, do celebrations etc. Each parent take care their child as per their capacity or sometimes out of their capacity.  They wake-up in the night or even don't sleep at night due to their child is unwell. A mother knows automatically when her child is feeling hungry and always ready to feed their child. Spoon feeding, small bytes or prepares different dishes for them. They went out to their home for earn money so that they educate their children and settled down them to earn their lively hood. You don't think all these makes them equivalent to GOD?

During all to the journey until this stage are fine but the next stage of the life is Old age. But same children leave their parents alone and send them to the old age homes.

In old age a person's capacity mental and physical both get decrease day by day. Bones does not remain so strong as compare to young age and many kind of disease like arthritis, diabetes, tooth issues, eye sight issues etc. effects the body and requires regular treatment. Person get retired from their job/business due to these reasons. Every one knows that dealing with kids and elderly parents is same. But we forgets our all responsibilities and instead of taking care them we send them to alone or to the old age homes.

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Did you ever think:

Who will take care them in this stage?

Who will let them go to doctor for treatment when they are unable to walk as a child does not?

Who will feed them like a child does not cook himself and eat?

Who will bring them for walk? etc.

We went to the Temples, Gurdwaras, Churches to pray God, for finding mind relief. We visits to the spiritual Gurus' ashrams also call them like Bapu ji, Devi Maa, Mata etc. but forgets actual God who had given birth to you and were helpful to you to reach you in the position where you are today. They always pray for your growth. Instead of giving a penny to them you give thousands or even more as donations to these fraud Gurus.

So time to wake up & share this article your friends to check that how much they love and take care their parents.

Here are 10 Tips to take care your parents to take care and and make them happy:

1. Start your day

In every morning when you will see them then do Good Morning wish. It may be in your way, In Indian society touch feet and wish them or just say Good Morning etc. Parents must develop this habit in their children.

2.  Regular treatment

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You should bring them to hospital for regular treatment. If they are taking regular medicine then you should ask them regularly if these get finished and need to purchase it.

3. Generation gap

There is a generation gap but many parents does not understand it and do not adopt a new environment. Try to make them understand but if still they don't then apply no argument rule [read article "Are you in Happy Married Life???"].

4. Vacations / Outing

After getting retirement they get bored at home. Plan for short [3-4 days] vacations / outing atleast once a year. Also take them for outing like to the malls for shopping, buying grocery, watching movies etc. These things make them feel refresh.

5. Gifts

Do you remember when you were kid they celebrate your birthday, they were give your gifts? So you should also remember their birthday or marriage anniversary and give them gifts. Go outside for family lunch/dinner. It will feel them happy.

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6. Don't Shy

You should not shy to introduce your parents with your friends. Some times we think that your parents were doing small profile job/business and If I will introduce them to my friends then they will insult you. Forget these kind of thoughts. Your parents are GOD for you. You must be game changer. If you will think like this then others will also treat your parents like backwards. Don't forget what you are today that is due to their blessings.

7. Don't feel angry

Think when you were kid and by mistake you broke things at home then your parents never angry on you as they know you never did it intentionally. So now at this age if by mistake this kind of things happens then don't feel angry on them also don't cry upon them.

8. Participate in decision 

Participate you parents in taking family decisions.  Their opinion matters so when you will ask from them they will feel happy.

9. Senior Citizen life insurance

Cover up them with medical insurance is a good decision in the old age. During this age they may need regular treatment as many kinds of illness / problems faced by people. It is costlier so it is good idea to cover your parents with cashless medical insurance. Senior citizens would required personal care so you can appoint someone for home care. Many life insurance companies provides senior citizen life insurance and cover up many illness.

10. Family Time

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One more way to live together with happiness is Family time. It may be once in a week. Gather whole family together on lunch / dinner,  discuss on general topics, share routine things, discuss things with your kids and parents. Family time will also teach your kids the importance of a joint family.

If you are a student studying outside or while doing job or business you are out for the business trip then making a phone call to your parent is a good idea to make them happy. Togetherness makes a family happy. So love your parents as they are GOD for you without them it was not possible you to come in this world.

If you also think same about your parents then share this article to others.

All the Best!!!

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