क्या आप अपने माता-पिता को प्यार और उनकी देखभाल करते हैं???
Time never stops and It went so fast. A new member borns in the family, he/she grows and crosses different stages child -> adolescent -> young -> old and then went to the ultimate stage of the life.
When a new member borns everyone get happy, distribute sweets, do celebrations etc. Each parent take care their child as per their capacity or sometimes out of their capacity. They wake-up in the night or even don't sleep at night due to their child is unwell. A mother knows automatically when her child is feeling hungry and always ready to feed their child. Spoon feeding, small bytes or prepares different dishes for them. They went out to their home for earn money so that they educate their children and settled down them to earn their lively hood. You don't think all these makes them equivalent to GOD?
During all to the journey until this stage are fine but the next stage of the life is Old age. But same children leave their parents alone and send them to the old age homes.
In old age a person's capacity mental and physical both get decrease day by day. Bones does not remain so strong as compare to young age and many kind of disease like arthritis, diabetes, tooth issues, eye sight issues etc. effects the body and requires regular treatment. Person get retired from their job/business due to these reasons. Every one knows that dealing with kids and elderly parents is same. But we forgets our all responsibilities and instead of taking care them we send them to alone or to the old age homes.
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Did you ever think:
Who will take care them in this stage?
Who will let them go to doctor for treatment when they are unable to walk as a child does not?
Who will feed them like a child does not cook himself and eat?
Who will bring them for walk? etc.
We went to the Temples, Gurdwaras, Churches to pray God, for finding mind relief. We visits to the spiritual Gurus' ashrams also call them like Bapu ji, Devi Maa, Mata etc. but forgets actual God who had given birth to you and were helpful to you to reach you in the position where you are today. They always pray for your growth. Instead of giving a penny to them you give thousands or even more as donations to these fraud Gurus.
So time to wake up & share this article your friends to check that how much they love and take care their parents.
Here are 10 Tips to take care your parents to take care and and make them happy:
1. Start your day
In every morning when you will see them then do Good Morning wish. It may be in your way, In Indian society touch feet and wish them or just say Good Morning etc. Parents must develop this habit in their children.
2. Regular treatment
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You should bring them to hospital for regular treatment. If they are taking regular medicine then you should ask them regularly if these get finished and need to purchase it.
3. Generation gap
There is a generation gap but many parents does not understand it and do not adopt a new environment. Try to make them understand but if still they don't then apply no argument rule [read article "Are you in Happy Married Life???"].
4. Vacations / Outing
After getting retirement they get bored at home. Plan for short [3-4 days] vacations / outing atleast once a year. Also take them for outing like to the malls for shopping, buying grocery, watching movies etc. These things make them feel refresh.
5. Gifts
Do you remember when you were kid they celebrate your birthday, they were give your gifts? So you should also remember their birthday or marriage anniversary and give them gifts. Go outside for family lunch/dinner. It will feel them happy.
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6. Don't Shy
You should not shy to introduce your parents with your friends. Some times we think that your parents were doing small profile job/business and If I will introduce them to my friends then they will insult you. Forget these kind of thoughts. Your parents are GOD for you. You must be game changer. If you will think like this then others will also treat your parents like backwards. Don't forget what you are today that is due to their blessings.
7. Don't feel angry
Think when you were kid and by mistake you broke things at home then your parents never angry on you as they know you never did it intentionally. So now at this age if by mistake this kind of things happens then don't feel angry on them also don't cry upon them.
8. Participate in decision
Participate you parents in taking family decisions. Their opinion matters so when you will ask from them they will feel happy.
9. Senior Citizen life insurance
Cover up them with medical insurance is a good decision in the old age. During this age they may need regular treatment as many kinds of illness / problems faced by people. It is costlier so it is good idea to cover your parents with cashless medical insurance. Senior citizens would required personal care so you can appoint someone for home care. Many life insurance companies provides senior citizen life insurance and cover up many illness.
10. Family Time
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One more way to live together with happiness is Family time. It may be once in a week. Gather whole family together on lunch / dinner, discuss on general topics, share routine things, discuss things with your kids and parents. Family time will also teach your kids the importance of a joint family.
If you are a student studying outside or while doing job or business you are out for the business trip then making a phone call to your parent is a good idea to make them happy. Togetherness makes a family happy. So love your parents as they are GOD for you without them it was not possible you to come in this world.
If you also think same about your parents then share this article to others.
All the Best!!!
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