आप अच्छे माता पिता कैसे बनें??? [Click here to read in Hindi]
All couples wish to have kids. The home is complete from the children. Children's voices fill the happiness in the hearts of all the members of the house irrespective of it is a boy or a girl. You feel lucky that a child has come into your house in the form of a bundle of happiness.
Just having a child is not enough; parents' responsibility starts here. Children are like an empty paper and you can write anything on it without any mess-up. They are like a raw pot; you can bend and give any shape easily. You feel relex if you are having a a healthy and intelligent kid. Parents work like a teacher and children spend much time with their parents. Children start learning things only from their parents. But sometimes all these things does not go well on track due to insufficient guidelines.
The question arises here: are you guiding your children in such a way that they should on the right track, respect everyone and move towards their career successfully? do you have all the qualities that make you a good parent?
Here are some good parenting tips. These can develop effective parenting skilling inside you to nurture your kids. You can read and share it with other parents.
1. Give true love, not all demanded things
People mistakenly believe that to love their children means fulfilling their every demand. If you give them everything they ask for then you are very stupid. If you love your child, then give only those things which are necessary. When you truly love someone, without worrying about his kindness, you do what is right for him. You think that you are having only a single child, purchasing costly things like toys on their demand. Sometime purchasing costly gifts for your kid also treated as status symbol for you as you are not having any shortfall of money. You feel that your kid must have everything. But It is not good for him. Their small demands will gradually grow bigger and the child will become stubborn to persuade his stubbornness.
2. Create a friendly and positive environment
You should create a loving happy atmosphere. Do not keep office or business parishes in front of children. If you look scared and worried then how your children will be happy? They will learn the same thing and their attitude will be develop accordingly. Do not quarrel and debate with your spouse in front of your children. Children's have little wit, it can have adverse effects on their mind [Also read "Are you in happy married life"]. Always be happy in front of your kids so that they feel comfortable. If your kids feel friendly with you then they will share each and every thing with you.3. Siblings
If you are having more than one kid then you should behave equally. Otherwise most of the brothers and sisters experience jealousy or competition in some way. It can flare up in disputes and quarrels. All your fingers are not equal, so do not compare both in the study or in the spirit of a competitor.
4. Give quality time
Give your children quality time. help them in their study, play with them, motivate them for doing some creative work. By that way their mind will be creative and they will not be destructive. [Read the article "Do you Know How Your Child be a Good Learner???"]
5. Use of smart phone & gadgets
There is a lot of energy inside the children. They can not sit regularly on one place and want to do something creative. For doing it, support them. Today's parents give smart phones and other gadgets to their children so that they can engage in it so that they will not disturb them. This is a completely wrong approach. They become addicts to these gadgets [Read the article "Is your child smart phone addicted???"]. If you have not much time to spend with them, then they should include some sports, arts or dance classes according to their interest. This will enhance their talent. For extra curriculum activities your kids can also learn singing, music, dance, art online.
6. Develop Habit of self-study
You should encourage your children to self-study. While while studying answers to their questions, if you are unable to answer, check out some online sites or check with their teachers. For students there are online assignments are available for maths, science (EVS), SST etc. for doing more practice. It will increase their confidence, help them in development of self-study habit. This habit will helpful to them while they will do higher study. Create an environment where external intervention is less and the child gets an opportunity to increase his intellectual capacity.
7. Keep patience
If children will not do any mistake then who will do it, You & me? So keep patience, if they will do any mistake then ask reason for doing it, listen carefully and explain the correct way for doing things. If you honestly want to raise your children well, then first you have to make yourself a quiet and loving person.8. Praise your child
You should praise your child's work. When they will do any good work then don't forget to praise them by saying some magical words like "Nice!", "I proud on you!", "Keep it up!" etc. It will boost-up their moral and they will do extra efforts for doing their future tasks. In some days you will feel the change in them.9. Regular health check-up
Being a good parent you must be alert about your kids health. You must do baby pediatrician visits to follow vaccination chart. Do medical check if you see any kind of changes in their regular activities. For example if your child used to write its school work on time in the school but now he is not able to do it. It may be possible that his eye sight need to be tested. You may also buy health Insurance policy for your kids [Read the article "Do you Know How Your Child be a Good Learner???"]. It may cover their regular dental check-up.10. Update yourself regularly
Due to rapid change of technology, many changes come to the way of study. You have to keep yourself updated otherwise your children will not feel comfortable with you. You should be aware of online study courses, online test series, eBooks available on the Internet etc. You can subscribe to these courses for reference or practices of your children. Generation gap is a major obstacle in making you a perfect parent.11. Respect expectations
Everyone in the world need respect. For getting respect you first need to respect others. In the same way respect your kids. Never use abusing language with them. Don't pressurize them to respect you or others. They will learn it from you. You must be a role model for them.12. Career decision
They should become what they want to be. Try to mold them according to their own understanding of life. It is not necessary that whatever you did your child will also follow the same and do same profession or job. You should courage your child to think about their career according to their interest.
Children are future of your family and for your country so let them nurture with love and care.
All the Best!
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